Sunday, November 3, 2024


I bought this book on impulse at a store near a coffee shop right after a good friend texted to tell me she'd be late for our meetup.  I'd rather read than scroll, I reasoned, as I tapped my card to the contactless payment terminal.  I don't care much for "pop fiction" and anything that's an Oprah Book Club read is a bit of a red flag (for me), but I didn't want to waste half my free time trying to decide, so I just got it.  I did not expect to feel put out when my friend showed up for lunch.  The book was good! And I did not know I was in that moment a living prop for the storyline itself.

Hill has penned a story any adult in 2024 can relate to.  He nails all the big and angsty issues churned up by modernity while keeping close to the common theme of unfinished business from flawed childhoods. Jack and Elizabeth have baggage in spades.

I laughed out loud at the intrusiveness of the wearable technology - the orange wrist band.  It's Whoop on steroids. So much of what this couple goes through (ok, maybe not the brush with the weird cults) was easy to imagine.  It's a book that'll make you chuckle at yourself and think:  Yeah, I've sure been there".  Even the twists and turns of their arguments felt a little familiar.  Hill does a real magic trick every time he walks through the husband/wife dance of disputes, because he manages to make it so garden-variety recognizable.

The most amusing chapter, I thought, was where Jack is in long, cringey, and mostly failed Facebook conversations with his estranged father, who doesn't really know the difference between a status update and a chat box message.  Still, they argue with one another on FB at some length, sending each other links to support their own closely-held but wildly different points of view, in an effort to disprove each other.  I thought the author missed an opportunity here.  He assumes we all agree that Jack is more sane, more with it, and more right about these "things".  And so, he misses the chance to send out a bigger, better message.  This: Anyone can find solid "science" to support a point of view, so rather than argue your point endlessly, it should be obvious that it is incumbent upon you, the citizen, to learn more on this topic and then have the confidence to make a decision that is sensible. 

It has decent pace and with its feet firmly planted in the self-annihilating, technology-driven 2024ish timeline, there is literally something for everyone!






Sunday, April 10, 2022

Review: The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Simply not my cup of tea; I could barely force myself to finish. I waited many weeks for the book to be available at my library, excited to finally get a copy as so many had reported enjoying this book so thoroughly. But, the conversational exchanges on these pages fell flat for me and even as the story unfolded, I never felt curious or compelled to read on.
I am happy, however, that so many others have been enriched from the telling of this tale.

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Thursday, March 31, 2022

Review: The Changing World Order: Why Nations Succeed and Fail

The Changing World Order: Why Nations Succeed and Fail The Changing World Order: Why Nations Succeed and Fail by Ray Dalio
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is a book I will read again and again. The invasion of Ukraine by Russia might actually change Mr. Dalio's predictions and if he writes an update to this book as a result, I'll be first to buy it!
These are the kinds of book that should be read in high school instead of a dry, packaged curriculum for history and/or economics. Seriously.

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Review: Destiny of the Republic: A Tale of Madness, Medicine and the Murder of a President

Destiny of the Republic: A Tale of Madness, Medicine and the Murder of a President Destiny of the Republic: A Tale of Madness, Medicine and the Murder of a President by Candice Millard
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Candice Millard has done it again! What. A. Book.

It bears repeating: It is books like this that should be read in high school to teach history, not some dry packaged curricula with a stultifying text book lining up events in a boring chronology.

This book has everything. Intrigue, love, politics, history of slavery, history of spoils system, mental illness, and, last by not least, the tragic failure of 19th century medicine to acknowledge the need for sterilization of wounds.

Republican President Garfield's murder changed the course of history and likely slowed the progress he and his party had made in creating a just and equal society for former slaves and all men/women of color. On the other hand, because most agreed that it was the Democrats obsession of the spoils system (aka cronyism and nepotism) that enabled the heinous murder to happen in the first place, everyone finally agreed to do away with it as an official practice. In my opinion, this is the only silver lining.

He was a remarkable man, this I knew. But, the book does a superb job of showing us why he was so exceptional.

It must be read!

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Thursday, January 27, 2022

Review: The Social Singularity: How decentralization will allow us to transcend politics, create global prosperity, and avoid the robot apocalypse

The Social Singularity: How decentralization will allow us to transcend politics, create global prosperity, and avoid the robot apocalypse The Social Singularity: How decentralization will allow us to transcend politics, create global prosperity, and avoid the robot apocalypse by Max Borders
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Have you ever imagined life without centralized, hierarchical social controls like a government or a fiat-money banking system?

Mr. Borders does a good job explaining why it is high time we allow all of the things that have failed us just dissolve into the past. He helps the reader look back to understand why education was fated to fail, why government and media were fated to collude, and why science gets things wrong more than it gets things right. The replacement for the corrupted structures that surround us will be peer-to-peer collaboration. One quote regarding science to help illustrate:

"The best thing that can happen to science is for it to open itself up to everyone, even people who are not credentialed experts, then let the checkers start to talk to each other. Leaders, influencers and force multipliers will emerge. You might think of them as communications hubs or bigger nodes in a network. Some will be cranks and hacks. But the best will win out, and the cranks will be worked out of the system in time."


In other words, a million million amateurs, a million million different perspectives, a million million people challenging orthodoxy and creating, in real time, will produce a better result that a handful of (often) bootlicking toadies. A network of superior collective intelligence is the light and the way. Yes, it is intriguing. (This book was published pre-Covid).

I especially like how he repeatedly invoked the Blue Church vs. the Red Religion throughout. These words/phrases were coined by Jordan Hall. Blue Church is the top-down process we see everywhere. It is describes a pro-governance, pro-gatekeepers, pro rules and pro following of the rules unquestioningly. The Red Religion uses a bottoms-up process, a decentralized way of sharing intel. It bypasses the gatekeepers. It's the reason we had Donald Trump for president surprising all the Blue Church members. It's the reason so many families are pulling their kids out of public schools. The war that is being waged today by these two very different philosophical systems is referred to again and again in this book. This helped me know where to hang some of the information in this book.

Exactly how a peer-to-peer life would play out ... this is not covered very deeply. It is still an idea, but the blockchain lays the groundwork. Cryptocurrency, though still volatile, will be the enabler. Smart contracts will keep us honest.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book, because I am a beginner in the meta-verse, so two thumbs up. If I were a veteran in this space, I might find it unsatisfying.

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Sunday, September 12, 2021

Review: The Island of Sea Women

The Island of Sea Women The Island of Sea Women by Lisa See
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A captivating, multi-generational family saga set on the South Korean Island of Jeju. Beautifully written, it is a story of female friendship, motherhood, suffering, and forgiveness. But the most compelling parts of this book hold the history of this island through the war-torn 20th century and the fierce, remarkable Haenyeo women.

In the not-so-distant past, this island’s inhabitants were sustained by the Haenyeo women – free divers whose labors provided food for the families. They were the respected breadwinners in this matriafocal society where most of the men raised the children while the women dived in the ocean for their food. This book tells the tale of Young-sook and Mi-ja. You will never forget their stories and all they endured. It is fiction but this author does an amazing job layering the history of Japanese occupation before WW2 and the presence of Americans after WW2.

“Every woman who enters the sea carries a coffin on her back,” she warned the gathering. “In this world, in the undersea world, we tow the burdens of a hard life. We are crossing between life and death every day”.

Some died, as the work was very dangerous. They bravely handle these deaths and moved on with their work. There are still Haenyeo women on the island - some over 80 years old – but they are many fewer in numbers and, sadly, they may not survive modernity.

It is believed that the Haenyeo women are uniquely adapted to withstand the freezing temperatures. Their vitality is the stuff of legends and this book captures it brilliantly!


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