Saturday, May 30, 2020

Review: Normal People

Normal People Normal People by Sally Rooney
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I am surprised how much I liked this book. It arrived in the mail for my son - a school reading. I read the back cover, dismissed it as a book for "the young", but then started reading the first page while having my lunch. Hmm. I simply couldn't put it down.

It is a highly-focused love story, with a distinctly present day angst. It doesn't read as though it had ever been written carefully on a page, but rather it just reads as though you are in someone else's head the whole time, hearing them talk. Such a distinct style and it really works, too. The author places you into the heads of her characters, where, like it or not, you will experience being them.

Since I prefer authors like Wilkie Collins, Dickens and George Eliot, usually I will take a strong cup of tea and maybe a slice of lemon cake with my reading. But, Normal People demands to be taken with avocado toast and kombucha. Really.

Here's the thing - the perfectly articulated thoughts of Connell and Marianne are so beautifully sculpted and so provoking that you just want to hear more and more. You might relate; you might not. Either way, their thoughts and their conversations will leave you slightly stricken, because you will understand them and (I think) this will surprise you.

This is a book you will get lost in!



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Tuesday, May 26, 2020

Review: The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich

The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book is as amazing as people have been telling me. It has been on my to-read list for over a decade; better late than never.

It breaks down into four sections: definition, elimination, automation and liberation. You won't want to skip any of it. Although some will sound dated as the book was published over 13 years ago - it's still valuable because people don't change and business and industry, while increasingly online, still manage to rule our lives and make us unhappy.

I read lots of books about habits, efficiency, goal-setting and personal improvement. This book stands out for its focus on the principles of stoicism.

My favorite quote: What we fear doing most is usually what we most need to do.

Every page is packed with wisdom and the paradoxical nature of his observations really do make you stop, think and see this thing - this problem of time and ambition and living life - in a fresh, new way.

It's one of those book you need to own so you can go back to your favorite parts - the parts you swore were written just for you - and take in the energy of his words.

A truly great book!

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Sunday, May 17, 2020

Review: The Age of Innocence

The Age of Innocence The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton
My rating: 5 of 5 stars


This had been on my To Read list for many years. I can't believe I put off reading Wharton so long. Pen in hand, she is virtuosic.

In The Age of Innocence, Edith Wharton writes of the Gilded Age - New York in the 1920's. This is a beautiful, breath-taking parade of perfectly formed ideas in sentences that will strike awe. It is evident throughout that Wharton takes a special pleasure in featuring hypocrisy, indolence and pomposity. She knew of what she spoke because it was the world from which she had sprung.

It is a love story first, though -- hearts vs. propriety -- a struggle between what one knows is right vs. what society deems to be right. Wharton masterfully unravels the lives of the true believers and the pretenders and there is not a moment in the whole darn story that you won't be on the edge of your seat, thinking "Oh, no! or, possibly, "Thank God!"

I did not want it to end. It was simply splendid.



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Thursday, May 14, 2020

Review: A Thousand Splendid Suns

A Thousand Splendid Suns A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is book that will grip you and not let you go until you've read to the last page, and then it will cling to your thoughts for many days. It is a story to be remembered.

In A Thousand Splendid Suns we follow the lives of Laila and Mariam, from 1960 to 2005. We experience the impact of war in Afghanistan - the Russians, the Mujahadeen, al Quaida - through the eyes of these two women. They endure unimaginable cruelty and witness intractable suffering and loss. Hosseini is an amazing storyteller and wordsmith. Through these two characters and through the men who murderously charge through their days, their months, their years, a reader can better imagine what it must be like to (1) live through war and (2) to live in a culture that seeks to punish and disintegrate women at every turn.

You will thank God you were born in the USA. You will pray for persecuted women who live in countries that have erased their personhood. You will have a clearer understanding of the string of the events that created al Quaida. You will bond with these two characters who endured so much - yet still they found reasons to love, to survive, to carry on. And, you will be mightily impressed with Khaled Hosseini.

"Each snowflake was a sigh heard by an aggrieved woman somewhere in the world. All the sighs drifted up the sky, gathered into clouds, then broke into tiny pieces that fell silently on the people below. As a reminder of how women suffer."


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Saturday, May 9, 2020

Review: Ultralearning: Master Hard Skills, Outsmart the Competition, and Accelerate Your Career

Ultralearning: Master Hard Skills, Outsmart the Competition, and Accelerate Your Career Ultralearning: Master Hard Skills, Outsmart the Competition, and Accelerate Your Career by Scott H. Young
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

When I read these words in the early chapters of this book, my heart galloped in agreement. As a home educator of four self-directed learning scholars, the past two decades of my life and my four grown kids are living proof of the profound truth of these words: "Beyond principles and tactics is a broader ultralearning ethos. It’s one of taking responsibility for your own learning: deciding what you want to learn, how you want to learn it, and crafting your own plan to learn what you need to. You’re the one in charge, and you’re the one who’s ultimately responsible for the results you generate. "

This is the most exciting book I have read this year. Ok, ok, this is probably because it agrees with my closely held principles of education and learning and how it ought to be done; on a philosophical level, it did not challenge any of my well-formed views. Mea culpa. This is true. But it doesn't make any of Scott Young's discoveries and advice on learning any less potent and valid.

He learned so many hard things by immersing himself in them thoroughly while creating a dynamic feedback system for checking his own retention. He began from a place of interest. He had ongoing meta-conversations with himself to resolve issues of focus and he kept his eye on the transferability of the learning to real life in the real world. He anchored newly learned facts to something relatable that he already knew.

In Utralearning Young takes us from the grand to the granular in multiple realms. You won't feel at a loss on how to get started with your own ultralearning project or ultralearning lifestyle.

I especially love his deep analysis of the Polgar family and how Laszlo and Klara Polgar set out to raise geniuses together. They created ultralearners. Three. All daughters, who learned how to learn by blending the play and the work of it. They did not attend school. They all became national and internationally renowned chess players, but they also mastered multiple languages, among other things. Interviewed as adults, they acknowledge a very happy childhood. It is a great example of how to make ultralearning fun while making it a way of life. Everyone wins, here.

He discusses the barriers to learning and points out that fear is a chief culprit. If you are afraid that you won't be able to understand something and if this keeps you from starting, Young offers very specific advice on deconstructing that fear so you can get started.

This is a great book! Everyone who yearns to learn or who feel dissatisfied with their own learning journey in life (or their children's lives) really ought to pick up this book. It is a game changer. You will be not be disappointed.

What are you waiting for? The beginning is always today. ~ Mary Shelley

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Sunday, May 3, 2020

Review: The Family Upstairs

The Family Upstairs The Family Upstairs by Lisa Jewell
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I have stepped outside my typical non-fiction and old literature genres (once again) and chose this Lisa Jewell title for a much needed covid-intermission. It totally worked. 100% diverting.

The characters are real - the drama and the tragedy, very real. It all begins when sweet Libby Jones inherits a house. She decides she will dig into her own history to learn who her real parents were and how she came to be found, as a baby, in a dilapidated mansion that had once been grand.

Excellent pace, and, oh, the domestic noir! This twisted up mess of a family! There is love, betrayal, colossal stupidity, innocence, and evil. It is a story of survival more than anything else. Lots of twists and turns~

I recommend Earl Grey tea with lemon cookies to go with this!

Storytelling at its best. Jewell has a gift.

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